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Forgetting to Remember

Roxanne Noor

Updated: Jan 6




My grandaunt Roshni is wrapped in Alzheimer’s

Her daughter tells me it began from isolation

An impoverishment of social interaction


The disease was an infection of loneliness

It’s easy to forget if little is worth remembering

There was little she cared to keep

Memories slip out the back door


Roshni refused to meet her old college friends

She seldom picked up the phone

She stayed in a one bedroom apartment with her books

Rimbaud, Camus, Vonnegut

She lived in a world of papyrus and ink

Her only human companion was her maid

Who silently cooked parathas


Over night a mental dam broke loose

Now Roshni talks to the walls


All chatter is undigested memory

Chewed upon forty years later

Her mind metabolizes old wounds

She rages spontaneously

(Only towards men)

She says “I love you” for no particular reason

She smiles largely with her yellow jagged tooth

A chiseled testament to time


Roshni is named the mayor of forgetting

The family has become irrelevant to her

Sometimes I am her elder sister, the Marxist

Other days I’m her neighbor from Shanghai

I can play any character in her home theater

The village cripple or the Hindi teacher

I am nebulous and vague, not even a distant memory

So I become everyone


One morning during the summer monsoon

We are trapped indoors

Rain pounds on the window like an angry past lover

I sit in the kitchen and read

Roshni stands behind me

She recites every line of the book's poem aloud

“Sylvia Plath” she murmurs


There are some things that touch the interior

There are some things we cannot forget

There are some things buried too deep inside

It is reserved for poetry

We call it, poetry.


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